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Musings of a Modern Mom
Deciding to have a child alone has been a wild ride. If you’re looking for help making this choice, check out the craziness I’ve already dealt with so you can hopefully avoid it. Just a reminder, I’m not a medical professional or offering medical advice, I’m merely sharing my experience trying to become a mom. So let’s share insights and information so that no solo mom ever has to wonder, “How do I do this?”
IVF embryo transfer process
After all the blood, sweat, and tears of IVF, what happens when it’s time for the actual embryo transfer? Check out what to expect from the process when you’re ready to get pregnant.
IVF egg retrieval process
When you reach the end of your IVF cycle, it’s time to retrieve those eggs. What should you expect when you go in to harvest your eggs and how should you handle aftercare?
Let’s talk about IVF needles
If you’re going to have IVF you need to get used to needles. A lot of them. Every. Day. So I’ll share what my regime looked like and how my experience with self injection went.
Choosing to start IVF
Deciding to start IVF is not a small or easy choice. Once you make it, however, where do you start and what should you expect?
Moving from IUI to IVF: How are they different?
What do you do when IUI isn’t working? IVF is a scarier fertility option but it’s important to know how they both work so you can make informed fertility choices.
Deciding to restart fertility treatments
It can be hard to decide to restart your fertility treatments after taking a break. Here are some tips for deciding when you’re ready to get back into the swing of things.
So uh… I think I met someone: What to consider when contemplating a fertility break
If you need a break, or decide to try dating again, what should you keep in mind when making your decision? I share my tips on how to decide if a break is right for you.
Facing multiple negative pregnancy tests
One negative test is bad. More are painful. Learn how to cope with disappointment time after time.
Facing your first negative pregnancy test
Negative pregnancy tests can really take the wind out of your sails. Here’s my experience facing disappointment for the first time.
Trying IUI for the first time
Heading into the clinic for a first IUI try, what should you expect? I cover the process and steps you’ll go through when you arrive.
Gender selection and phone sex
Ready for a funny story? I was trying to learn more about gender selection and was sent down an unexpected rabbit hole.
Fertility counselling: Why it needs to be a high priority
Fertility counselling can help you better understand your options, medical procedures, and what to expect when your child turns 18. I share what my counselling session was like and what to expect.
What is IUI?
The first step of your fertility journey will probably be learning about IUI. What is it and why is it the least invasive option to begin with?
Tips for choosing a donor
What do you need to know when it’s time to pick your donor? From where to look, to what traits you need to be aware of, let’s break down the process of choosing donor vials.
Let’s talk about invasive tests for women
Let’s break down common invasive tests for women going through fertility treatments and what you can expect from the process, along with what sort of pain in involved in each.
Preparing for your first fertility clinic visit
Learn what happens during your first visit to a fertility clinic and what sort of teats to be prepared for.
Dealing with judgment
Being a single mom alone is hard enough. How do you deal with prying questions of people who think you’re making a mistake?
What are your fertility treatment options?: Comparing AI, IUI, and IVF
What type of fertility intervention do you need when deciding to be a single mom by choice? From AI, to IUI, to IVF let’s break it down.
Figuring out where to start
Where should you start when you want to become a single mom by choice? Learn what your GP can do for you and what to consider when choosing a fertility clinic.
So I’m thinking about doing a thing…
Learn how I got started on my path to becoming a single mom by choice.
Start your journey
If you’re ready to make a decision, check out our resource page with helpful tips on where to start